Hidden costs of compassion

The Hidden Costs of CompassionDid you know that sometimes compassion can have hidden costs?Sound's funny, doesn't it?But if you're willing to check it out with me you might also realize that your compassion for others at times comes at a price to yourself.How often have you sought to forgive, to see things from someone else's perspective, to understand, to have compassion for why someone else might behave the way they do?What happens to you and your experience in that?-It [...]

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Mind the Gap

Mind the Gap: Perhaps you've walked away from a situation or condition that you have been tolerating or that is no-longer serving you and at first it feels liberating. Then you start to wonder if you made the right choice, if things will work out, if you were just overreacting or being silly, if maybe you could have worked things out after all. Maybe you're even considering going back... to the job, to the relationship, to the circumstances that challenged [...]

“GOOD” relationships…

"GOOD Relationships" "It only takes one person to have a good relationship..." I heard that piece of information from Byron Katie a while back, but it has taken me a quite a while to really get its meaning. What does that mean? How can that be?   My friend was there to listen and make this a good relationship... even if I wasn't having it. So often we blame our partner for how the relationship is [...]

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